My Camping Gear Journey (And a Lot of Mistakes)
I got into camping about three years ago after a friend dragged me on a weekend trip. I showed up with a borrowed tent, a sleeping bag from college that smelled suspicious, and absolutely no idea what I was doing.
That first trip was rough. I was cold, I couldn’t sleep, and I forgot to bring a headlamp so I fumbled around in the dark a lot.
But I was hooked anyway. Something about being outside, away from screens and work, just worked for me.
Since then I’ve upgraded almost everything, made some expensive mistakes, and figured out what actually matters. Here’s the gear I’d tell past-me to buy.
The Stuff That Actually Matters
A Tent That Doesn’t Suck
My first tent was a $40 Amazon special. It leaked at the seams during a light rain and the zipper broke on the second trip. Classic.
I eventually bought an REI Half Dome 2 Plus for around $230. That was two years ago and it’s still perfect. Sets up in maybe 5 minutes once you’ve done it a few times. Survived some genuinely nasty weather. Has enough room for two people plus gear.
What matters in a tent:
- Waterproof fly that covers the entire tent (not just the top)
- Quality zippers (they fail first on cheap tents)
- Freestanding design (you can pitch it on rock, sand, etc.)
- Realistic sizing (“2 person” often means “2 people touching”)
I’d skip ultralight tents unless you’re backpacking serious miles. For car camping or short hikes, the weight savings aren’t worth the durability trade-offs.
A Sleeping Bag That’s Actually Warm Enough
Sleeping bags have temperature ratings, but they lie. A bag rated to 30F will keep you alive at 30F, not comfortable. You’ll be cold.
My rule: buy a bag rated 10-15 degrees colder than the lowest temps you expect. I have a 15F bag that I use down to maybe 35F comfortably. Below that, I add layers.
I use a Kelty Cosmic 20, which cost around $130 on sale. Down fill, packs small, keeps me warm. Not the lightest option out there, but good value.
Signs of a cheap sleeping bag:
- Synthetic fill that’s really bulky
- Wimpy zippers
- No draft collar around the neck
- Temperature ratings that seem too good for the price
A Sleeping Pad (Non-Negotiable)
The ground sucks heat out of you even when it’s warm out. And sleeping on rocks and roots isn’t fun. A sleeping pad solves both problems.
There are three types:
Foam pads: Cheap ($20-40), indestructible, but bulky and not super comfortable. Good backup.
Inflatable pads: More comfortable, pack small, but can pop. Most common choice. $60-150.
Self-inflating: Kind of a hybrid. More comfortable than foam, less likely to pop than inflatables. $50-100.
I use a Therm-a-Rest NeoAir Xlite, which is inflatable and lightweight. It’s expensive ($180-ish) but incredibly comfortable and packs tiny. For car camping, you don’t need something this light - the Therm-a-Rest BaseCamp is cheaper and just as comfortable.
A Headlamp (Why Did I Wait So Long?)
I used my phone flashlight for the first several camping trips. Then I dropped it in the dirt while trying to cook dinner. Then the battery died while I was peeing at 2am and I walked into a tree.
A headlamp is like $20-30 and it changes everything. Hands-free light. Red light mode that doesn’t ruin your night vision. Lasts way longer than a phone battery.
I have a Black Diamond Spot that’s lasted three years. It’s probably overkill for casual camping - any name-brand headlamp will work. Just make sure it has adjustable brightness and a red light option.
A Camp Stove
You can cook over a campfire, but it’s a pain. Food takes forever, you can’t control the heat, and some places don’t allow fires anyway.
A simple butane or propane stove makes cooking so much easier. I use a Jetboil Flash for heating water and a basic Coleman two-burner for actual cooking. The Jetboil boils water insanely fast (great for coffee and freeze-dried meals). The Coleman is just a small stove that runs on propane canisters.
Don’t overspend here. A $30 Coleman stove works fine. Fancy camp stoves are for people who really care about weight or want to cook elaborate meals in the backcountry.
Quick Gear Comparison
| Item | Budget Option | What I Use | Splurge Option |
|---|---|---|---|
| Tent | Coleman Sundome (~$80) | REI Half Dome 2+ (~$230) | MSR Hubba Hubba (~$450) |
| Sleeping Bag | Coleman 30F (~$40) | Kelty Cosmic 20 (~$130) | Feathered Friends 20F (~$400) |
| Sleeping Pad | Foam pad (~$25) | Therm-a-Rest NeoAir (~$180) | Same, honestly |
| Headlamp | Energizer LED (~$15) | Black Diamond Spot (~$50) | Petzl Actik (~$80) |
| Stove | Coleman 1-burner (~$25) | Jetboil Flash (~$110) | MSR Windburner (~$150) |
Gear I’ve Bought and Regretted
Camping hammock: Bought one on a whim, used it once. Sleeping in a hammock sounds fun until you actually try to sleep in one. Some people love them. My back hated it.
Giant family tent: Bought a 6-person tent for two people because “room to stretch out.” It was a nightmare to set up alone, heavier than my car, and took forever to warm up from body heat. Sold it.
Cheap rain jacket: Thought I was saving money. It stopped being waterproof after maybe three uses. Now I have a decent Patagonia that’s lasted years.
Too many gadgets: Camp showers, fancy water filters, portable chairs that weigh 10 pounds. Most of it sits in my garage now.
What I’d Buy First
If you’re just starting out and don’t want to spend a fortune, here’s my priority order:
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Tent (~$100-150): Coleman or equivalent is fine for starting. Upgrade later if you keep camping.
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Sleeping pad (~$50-80): This makes more difference to your comfort than the sleeping bag. Get a decent one.
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Sleeping bag (~$80-130): Mid-range synthetic bag works for most conditions. Go down-fill when you upgrade.
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Headlamp (~$25): Any decent brand. You’ll use it constantly.
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Stove (~$30-50): Basic propane stove. Don’t overthink it.
Total: Around $300-400 for a complete setup that’ll work fine for years. You can spend way more, but you don’t have to.
One Last Thing
The best camping gear is the stuff you actually use. I know people with $2,000 setups who camp twice a year, and people with $300 setups who go every month.
Start with basics, see if you actually like camping, then upgrade the stuff that bothers you. That’s way better than buying top-of-the-line everything and discovering you’d rather just book a hotel.
Prices are approximate and based on what I’ve seen in early 2026.